Do you kid yourself that you are surrounded by so called friends who are supposed to be ...for you, for nothing could be further from the truth .One should not fear one's enemies ....for they are not the real enemies.The real enemies are much closer lurking behind the guise of friendship .If you could read whats in people's minds especially in the minds of your so called friends, you would be absolutely horrified.
This is not to mean that one should be phobic about what people think about you. If you were to ask your friends about what they really feel about you ,you would never get a truthful answer. You have to discern for yourself. To develop a phobia about anything is to set a mental trap for yourself. Keep your mind free. Let no one turn you into a suspicious introvert.
Do not let the gifts and good deeds of friends delude you into thinking that they are your friends. Few people ever giving anything for nothing. Sometimes people even give gifts and perform good deeds in order to morally compensate for the bad thoughts that they have toward those concerned . They may feel guilty about the way that they feel toward you so they try to appease their conscience by performing an act of kindness. And you think ....how kind so-and-so is ....What a true friend. If you only knew ,of course genuine acts of kindness ulterior motives are common . But genuine kindness is very tiny compared to the amount of phony kindness that is around.
Remember that in the final analysis ......only your Higher Self can be your true friend.Real,fleshy friends are exceedingly rare.If you can count two or three real friends during all lifetime than you are fortunate indeed. Any-body who thinks that he has loads of friends is just living in cloud cuckoo land. Only your Higher self , if you have learnt to be fully attuned to it , can help you on this score.
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