Love needs trust but marriage needs acceptance.During courtship period, people behave like blind by bypassing all the faults........but after marriage its a real world and they can't bypass but should live with/by faults. Eventually issue arises. Couples while in love talk only their positive points,likings etc. They never discuss about the negatives. Even if they discuss negatives, they convince themselves that they can adjust with that. This kind of conclusion is taken just because of the attraction on the other person and nothing else(magic of love). They fail to think practically. When it comes to real, magic is gone. Definitely practical people will not face this problem. The other main reason is adjustment. When it comes to love marriage,couples have a mind set that everything will happen as per their wish only(partner being their choice). When this doesn't happen they blame each other and start fighting on petty things.In arranged marriages the couple have a compulsion from parents and relatives to continue and work on their marriage and the hope that things will "settle down" as time goes by. With love marriages there is a lesser chance for a strong external influence to make the marriage work.Failure of marriage does not only mean a divorce. For marriage to continue success is not a criterion. A good number of marriages continue despite being a failure .
Astrological Factors influencing failure of love marriage :
Ascendant: general character and temperament of the native
5th house/lord : house of love affairs
7th house/lord : house of marriage
Jupiter: significator of husband
Venus : significator of wife
Moon : mental tendencies
Mars : indicates anger, violence, discord,
Saturn/Rahu/Ketu : they are separative planets
Combinations for Love Marriage Failure :
- Conjunction of 5th and 7th house lords with Saturn and Mars in 11th house causes love marriage but if it is aspected by Rahu/Ketu ,the love marriage ends in failure.
- 5th and 7th lord conjoined with Saturn and Mars in 6th/8th/12th house then the love marriage ends in failure.
- Affliction of 8th house/lord by Mars/Rahu/Ketu/Saturn in the Lagan/Navmansha chart or in the both charts indicates unorthodox marriage which ends in failure.
- Mars and Venus combined in 6th/8th/12th house or afflicted by malefics indicates failure of love marriage.
- 7th house, lord of 7th house , 2nd house and Venus badly afflicted by Saturn/Mars/Rahu/Ketu ,then the love affair fails to materialize in marriage .
By
Geeta Jha
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